The Sanctuary Membership

Your Refuge for Grief and Growth

Has grief, loss, or a painful past marked your life and heart?

Do you find yourself unsure of how to step forward?

Do you want to honor your grief + everything you’ve had to walk through, while also stepping toward your desires to:

  • Feel fully met by life-giving community, deep friendships, and loving partnership;

  • Do work you love, that inspires, fulfills, and supports you and the world;

  • Have the radiant physical and creative energy you need to dedicate yourself to your people, work, art, and new life adventures.

Let me guess,

You tend to be someone that takes care of everything and everyone, but you don’t feel taken care of or considered.

You are extremely capable and strong, so much so that no one seems to worry about you because you always appear to have it all together.

And on the outside you do, but on the inside, a lot more is happening:

  • You feel blah, disconnected, weighed down, tired, and unsure of what’s next;

  • Your mind seems to run at 5 thousand miles per hour, and you don’t often feel yourself in your body;

  • If feels like you’re in constant survival mode, even though you dream of finally thriving;

  • You are surrounded by loving people and beautiful places, but you struggle to feel present, relaxed, and soak it all in;

  • You feel lonely as you navigate it all, as no one seems to get or understand the complexity of what you feel - your need to give your grief space, while also wanting things to finally feel better.

If any or all of this resonates,

this is for you.

Welcome to The Sanctuary

The Sanctuary Membership is for women:

Living with Grief + loss,

FEELING untethered IN A Liminal + Void SPACE,

Navigating A big LIFE TRANSITION,

Or, feeling Overwhelmed in TIMES OF UNCERTAINTY + BIG UNKNOWNS

The Sanctuary was created so you can engage, process, and release grief and pain and regain your energy, creativity, and zest for life.

Here you will be deeply supported as you turn inward, tend to all of the emotions and parts of you that have been pushed down or away over the years, and then take new steps of growth and transformation forward as you are resourced and led, from the inside out.

You’ve probably gotten the message that…

after big hard life situations and moments, you are expected to simply move forward and keep going.

But you can still feel it all there, swirling inside, consuming your thoughts and energy. Maybe you’ve even wondered,

“Why can’t I seem to let this go and move past this like everyone else seems to have done?”

But Here’s the truth:

There is a reason you can’t seem to move past it.

There is a reason you can still feel it all swirling in your body, mind, and heart:

Big life losses, transitions, and pain come with a message and power that shakes you and cracks you open.

It is meant to lead you deeper into yourself, and with time, into a new way of living, being, and serving.

When you aren’t given space and support to feel the profundity of your grief, loss, all the big feelings that you feel along with it, you miss the opportunity that these moments offer to:

+ HEAL

+ CREATE A NEW, THRIVING FOUNDATION FOR LIFE

+ SEE AND SHIFT THE PLACES YOU’VE BEEN COMPROMISING and disconnected SO YOU CAN STEP INTO THE HEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS, AND WORK THAT YOU DESIRE.

THE GOOD NEWS IS:

This space has been created for you, so that you can honor the tremendous and life-changing nature of your grief and pain, and create a powerful and supportive foundation for you to live your life in the way you’ve always desired deep within.

While the external world and everything you want to see unfold for you is of course important and will be supported, here the foundation for your healing and growth begins in your inner landscape:

  • Your relationship to yourself

  • Your relationship to your grief and emotions

  • Your relationship to your body

  • Your connection to your inner wisdom and divine guidance

As you tend to and grow your inner garden, you will uncover a new spring of life within,

new energy that carries you and guides you forward to take steps toward your greatest life vision,

All while feeling seen, cherished, and supported.

“If you have been considering joining The Sanctuary let this be the encouragement/sign/nudge you need to do so! I became a founding member of The Sanctuary and I am so thankful I did. I had an initial hesitation to sign up due to a fear-based/financial-lack mindset, but I have worked with Ellie in the past and something was telling me that I needed to find a way to make it work. 

Every single call has allowed me to find emotional and physical release in ways that I would not have been able to do on my own. Ellie graciously and gently offers support and guidance in an incredibly nurturing and safe environment. She intuitively brings in themes and content that have perfectly aligned with my needs in each moment, and she allows the necessary time and space to process all that is emerging.

  
If you are feeling drawn, I wholeheartedly recommend that you join. The Sanctuary is a transformative experience!”

– Allison

bask in the rich support within

Here are the four monthly group calls included when you become a member of The Sanctuary:

Body Wisdom + Grounding Call

Guided energetic practice, teaching, and exploration to drop into the body and deepen awareness of the mind’s default patterns and inner crevices where emotional tending is needed. Hear your heart’s calls and messages + set intentions for the upcoming month,

75 mins

Sacred Ground: Monthly Ceremony for grief + Growth

Ceremonial and community space to tend and alchemize pain and grief somatically, through tea ceremony and intuitive movement (similar to a Grief Flow).
Connect deeply with yourself others moving with grief each month.
Co-led by Melina Charis

90 minutes

Sacred Tending Group Mentorship Call

Bring anything you desire to this space to work with Ellie 1:1. There will be 3 coaching spaces of 25ish mins each, given on a first come first serve basis. Everything is welcome – places you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed, relationships, work, truly anything!

90 mins max

Integration Flow (Last call of the month)

Intuitive and somatic movement + expression to integrate anything you’ve released, shifted, or gained over the course of the month.
Tap into your most updated and embodied version of Self, whatever that looks/feels like each month. Time to share, reflect, receive feedback at the end.

75 mins

YOUR MEMBERSHIP ALSO INCLUDES:

+ A library of 6 months (and growing) worth of call recordings to dive into right away (everything from mentorship, meditations, teachings, Grief Flows, etc!) 

+ Bonus podcast episodes for deepened integration and exploration 

+ A private community forum where you can ask questions, share your reflections, and connect with other members

+ Weekly check-ins and integration prompts from Ellie!

$77/MONTH

*NO COMMITMENT REQUIRED, CANCEL ANYTIME

While there is absolutely zero commitment when joining and you can cancel at any time, I highly recommend considering membership for 3-months minimum. This is NOT a land of quick fixes, rather of profound inner support that creates whole-life change with time.

January 2025 LIVE CALL SCHEDULE

FAQ

  • Yes, at this time The Sanctuary Membership is only for women.

  • You can see the current schedule above.

    + As the community grows, a survey of the best times for members will be conducted and call times will be readjusted as needed!

  • Each call will be recorded and added to the membership portal within 48hrs, so if you can't join one or all live, you will be able to fully engage in the recording.

  • The price is $77/ month.

    There is no commitment and you can leave and return at any time. However, if you are able, I recommend considering 3 months minimum in The Sanctuary for fullest benefit. Also, if you are a founding member and cancel, you’ll lose access to founding member pricing.

  • Yes, you will have access to 1:1 coaching opportunities on the monthly Sacred Tending Group Mentorship calls.

  • The membership is hosted on Podia. As soon as you join, you will be prompted to create and account and you will be able to access the membership from that account via your computer or phone.

    There is no app for the membership at this time.

  • Yes! The only pre-requisite to entering the Sanctuary is willingness. The Sanctuary membership will perfectly meet and guide you exactly where you are, as you are. You can trust the call to join, and that you are fully equipped to receive what is here for you.

  • No refunds will be given. If you wish to cancel your membership, you can do so in your account and you will not be charged again unless you re-join.